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Is there Etiquette Concerning Sharing about our Kids on Social Media?

  By  Kelly  on September 2, 2016    If you’re living in the 21 st   century (check.), have kids (check.) and engage with others on any of the various social media platforms (check.), this is a hot topic. It’s not an issue that would have dictated a discussion a decade ago, but today with Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and Snapchat….oh heck yes!  I’m talking about sharing stories and pictures of our beloved children on social media. I’ve written about the cost of living life on-line in a  previous blog,  but this blog is dedicated to our kids and what we share about them. We are just finishing up the first week of school here in Mt. Airy, Maryland. 6AM wake-up. Not fun. Seeing all the first-day-of-school pictures on Facebook and Instagram. GREAT fun!  I love the pictures of the first day  of school, prom, graduation, new driver, sporting events and cute-babies-doing-cute-things! Since both of my daughters are in college, my 15 year ol...
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The Manners Pig: A Creative Way to Teach Table Manners

By  Kelly  on November 7, 2016      Parents regularly tell me that the highest area of manner “pain” for them is table manners. We eat three meals a day. Even when your kids go off to school and the patient cafeteria workers get to observe them for 5 meals a week, you can STILL be brought to the verge of insanity by the licking, shoveling and tooting that takes place at YOUR dinner table during the other meals. I know you.  You have told me. And as a mom to three kids, I totally get it. Although my kids are of college and high school age, I occasionally need to remind. (Cough. Cough.) The kids would refer to it as nagging. I refer to it as doing my job as Mom; teaching them important life skills that will make others find them a pleasure to be around.  And maybe even help them get a job someday. No one wants to dine with a boor. Oh noooooo. No one. I’m often asked if there is any magical way to have your darling dinners minding their meal time manners....

How to Approach a Potentially Heated Exchange

  By  Kelly  on March 15, 2017      Conflict. Discourse. Emotions. Hurt Feelings. Incivility. Disagreements, both personally and professionally, are part of life. We’ve all had them. We will continue to have them. Challenging, questioning or offering your thoughts regarding another’s opinion does not have to be a negative exchange. While the two paths shall never cross, the exchange does not need to be nasty. Regardless of the encounter, each situation should be approached with  consideration ,  respect  and  honesty . Ditto for the  words   you  choose to use in these interactions. In their book,  Crucial Conversations , authors Patterson, Grenny, McMillan and Switzler define a Crucial Conversation as “ A discussion between two or more people where (1) stakes are high, (2) opinions vary, and (3) emotions run strong.”   They further point out that in these crucial conversations, we can do one of three things: Avo...